What I Offer — Full Page Version
Each service expanded with: designed for, how to make it work, goals & intention, boundaries.
Tantric Massage
The same quality of presence and touch, with fewer boundaries around what the body can experience. Rooted in tantric principles — energy, breath, full-body sensation. Less fixed, more spacious.
Designed for
Men who are ready to go beyond a conventional erotic experience — who want something that works with energy and breath as much as with touch. Also for men who have done erotic work with me before and want to go further. Not necessarily the right starting point for a first session.
How to make it work better
Breath is everything in tantric work. If you can arrive with some awareness of your breath — not controlled, just noticed — the session will open more readily. Stay curious rather than goal-oriented. The most useful thing you can do is allow rather than direct.
Setting goals & intention
Tantric sessions benefit from a more open intention than erotic ones. Something like: ‘I want to feel what’s possible’ or ‘I want to experience my body’s energy’ or simply ‘I’m ready to go deeper.’ Avoid fixing on a particular outcome — that tends to work against the session rather than with it.
Discussing & setting boundaries
Boundaries in tantric work are real but more fluid than in a conventional erotic session. We agree the broad shape of the session before we begin, and then allow it to find its own form. This requires a degree of trust — which is why tantric sessions work best with clients I know, or after a more detailed conversation beforehand.
Erotic Massage
One-way touch, mostly. I work on you — attentive, unhurried, without agenda. Mutual touch and play are a different kind of session, and a different kind of conversation. This one is about receiving.
Designed for
Men who want to experience skilled, full-body erotic massage without the pressure of reciprocating or performing. Particularly good for men who find it difficult to simply receive, or who want to explore sensation without directing it. Also well suited to men in relationships who want something their partner isn’t positioned to offer.
How to make it work better
Let go of the idea that you need to do anything. Your only role in this session is to feel. If something isn’t working — a pace, a technique, a level of pressure — say so. The session follows your body, not a fixed routine.
Setting goals & intention
Erotic massage works well when you arrive with an open intention rather than a specific outcome in mind. Something like: ‘I want to feel fully present in my body’ or ‘I want to experience pleasure without thinking about it’ tends to be more useful than a goal focused on release.
Discussing & setting boundaries
We discuss before the session what is and isn’t included. One-way touch is the default — I work on you. Mutual touch and genital play are available in some sessions but require a separate conversation. No penetration. No unannounced touch. You set the pace and can redirect or end at any point.
Therapeutic Massage
Skilled therapeutic bodywork — exactly as I trained. Deep tissue, Lomi Lomi, Thai, and stretch, on the table, clothed. No agenda beyond your body feeling better than when you arrived. Open to everyone. Designed for
Anyone who wants skilled therapeutic massage in a calm, professional space. Particularly useful for men who are new to working with me and want to start with something familiar. Open to all, including women.
How to make it work better
Arrive a few minutes early and let yourself settle before we begin. Let me know if there are areas that need particular attention or areas you’d prefer I avoid. The more specific you can be, the more useful the session will be.
Setting goals & intention
Therapeutic massage works best with a clear, simple intention. That might be: reduce tension in a specific area, improve sleep, decompress after a stressful period, or simply feel cared for. You don’t need to overthink it — even ‘I want to feel better’ is enough.
Discussing & setting boundaries
This is a clothed session with clear physical limits. There is a brief external genital massage available at the end if you want it — this is discussed beforehand, not assumed. No mutual touch or erotic play during the treatment.
Surrogate Partner
A recognised therapeutic practice that includes physical and intimate contact, agreed in advance and held with care. A space to explore closeness, ease, and intimacy without the complexity of a personal relationship. Get in touch to discuss what this looks like in practice.
Designed for
Men who want to explore intimacy, touch, and physical connection in a safe and boundaried space. Particularly useful for men who have limited experience of intimate contact, who carry shame or anxiety around sex, who are working through something specific, or who simply want to experience closeness without the weight of a relationship context.
How to make it work better
Honesty before the session is everything. Say what you want clearly, and what you don’t want equally clearly. This kind of session works best when both people know exactly what has been agreed and neither is guessing.
Setting goals & intention
Surrogate partner work benefits from an intention that goes beyond the physical. What do you want to feel? What do you want to be different afterwards? Connection, ease in your body, reduced anxiety around intimacy, a sense of being accepted — any of these is a valid and useful starting point.
Discussing & setting boundaries
Everything is discussed before the session begins. What is included, what isn’t, safety considerations, and anything you need me to know. There are no default assumptions. Boundaries are agreed together and held throughout. I reserve the right to decline or redirect anything that wasn’t discussed in advance.
Customised Session
Some people arrive knowing exactly what they want. Others have something in mind that doesn’t quite fit a single category. A customised session is built around you — from the conversation before it begins.
Designed for
Men who have specific needs or interests that don’t map neatly onto one of the other session types. Also for returning clients who want to combine elements from different sessions, or who want to use the time in a way we’ve discussed and agreed together.
How to make it work better
The conversation before the session is the session, in some ways. Come with as clear a picture as you can of what you’re looking for — even if it’s partial or uncertain. The more you can share, the better I can shape what follows.
Setting goals & intention
Custom sessions often have a more specific intention than others — and that’s useful here. Think about what you want to feel, experience, or explore. What hasn’t been possible in other sessions? What have you been curious about? What would make this session feel worthwhile?
Discussing & setting boundaries
Boundaries in a customised session are agreed in the conversation beforehand — in as much detail as we need. Nothing is assumed. Everything is discussed. The session then stays within what we’ve agreed, with room to adjust in the moment if something shifts.